Mushy Gestures to Make Any Girl Melt


  1. Appeal to what’s important to her

It’s really not hard to find out what a woman loves. She’ll talk about it all the time. The things she cares about the most and what she’s passionate about will come across loud and clear.

  1. Be there when she’s upset and needs you

If a girl is stressed out and really upset but doesn’t want to ask you for help, be there anyways. Do it on your own. Recognize the signs that she’s in distress and help her with anything. You can even do something little and silly to make her feel better and that’s really romantic.

  1. Don’t overlook the little things

Knowing how to be more romantic is super simple. All you need to do is do the little things every now and then. Picking up her favorite candy on your way home may not seem like much, but to her, it’s really romantic.

  1. Go big on occasion

Aside from the little things, do something big and extravagant every now and then. Buy her flowers, take her to a really nice restaurant, and even take her on a spontaneous weekend trip.

  1. Take a hint from her favorite romance movies

What romance movie is her favorite and the one she can always watch on repeat? If you don’t know, just ask her. Then watch it for yourself. What does the male lead do that’s cute and romantic? Even if it seems cheesy to you, give it a try and see how much she loves it. A girl’s favorite romance movie can tell you a lot about her.

  1. Show her genuine affection

Be physically affectionate. Be touchy-feely with her, kiss her forehead, give her a lot of hugs, and give her attention in that way.

  1. Voice your affection

Something that’s even better than physical affection is when you tell her how much you care about her. Be vocal about your feelings. We know this is generally harder for guys to do, but believe us when we say it’s really romantic to women.

  1. Take over the chores when she’s had a stressful week

If you really want to know how to be more romantic, then pay close attention to this one. When you know a girl has had a rough week and she’s stressed out, do some of her chores and do some small favors that will lighten her load. You may not even realize just how romantic this gesture is.

  1. Pay attention to what makes her happiest, and do more of it

What are some of the things you’ve done in the past that have made her really happy? Figure out what those things are and keep doing them. Don’t think that girls get sick of those things – especially if she’s really happy about them every time.

10. Plan a special date night once a month

This is particularly true for those of you in a long-term relationship who want to learn how to be more romantic. The truth is that when you’re with the same person for a long time, you might stop going on dates as you settle into a routine.

11. Give her an oil massage

A great way to bring romance into your relationship is by offering your woman a nice oil massage. You can do her whole body or just her back. But if you light a few candles and let her sit back and relax, the amount of romance she’ll feel is incredible. And you might just get a little something in return!

12. Run a bath for her when she’s stressed and overwhelmed

Baths are hot, relaxing, and pretty much every woman enjoys them. You can even get some scented oils and light a few candles for her. Allowing her to unwind is actually very romantic.

13. Know how to calm her during stressful times

Every girl is different in this way. Some women want to talk about their issues and vent, some want to listen to music, and others prefer to light a few candles and just breathe in the relaxing scents. Find out what your girl needs and give it to her.

14. Show her daily how much you care

It’s surprising how many guys don’t realize that romance doesn’t have to be a huge spectacle. It can actually be very small things you do daily that show her you care. Just be there every day and make sure she knows how much you love her. That’s enough to make her feel romanced.

15. Write her a love letter every once in a while

This is extremely underrated. Guys think love letters are stupid and unnecessary but women LOVE them. We can’t even tell you how much women love getting a handwritten letter from their men.

Link: Lovepanky

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