If you’re balancing work, kids, and the rare opportunity to actually go on a date, the idea of a candlelit, three‑hour dinner might sound… exhausting. And apparently, you’re not alone.
A new survey of 1,500 singles (ages 18 to 61) found that 70% are totally open to a first date at a fast‑food spot. Not exactly the rom‑com fantasy, but definitely practical. The top pick? Chick‑fil‑A, followed by Raising Cane’s and In‑N‑Out.
Why the shift?
Singles say fast‑food dates feel:
- Low‑pressure — no need to dress like you’re attending a gala
- Affordable — because life is expensive enough
- Relaxed — perfect if you’re squeezing a date between work, school pickup, and bedtime routines
For a lot of women, especially moms, the appeal is obvious: you get to meet someone without rearranging your entire life or committing to a long, formal evening.
Other budget‑friendly favorites
Women in particular are gravitating toward:
- Coffee shops
- Ice cream dates
- Mini golf
- Bowling
- Arcades
All fun, simple, and easy to fit into a busy schedule.
But not everyone is convinced
About 38% of women say a fast‑food first date feels “low effort,” compared to 22% of men. And honestly, that tracks. When you’re already doing the emotional labor of parenting, working, and keeping life running, the last thing you want is a date that feels like someone couldn’t be bothered.